Did you come up with a theme or idea to live by this year? Some people do that instead of resolutions. They choose a word or phrase, and then use the year to live by it and keep it as a component of their motto, and learn about it. I choose giving.
This cute little bugger was kind enough to give me a sweet look.
My theme for this year is giving
You might remember that on my 100 things to do list, I wrote that I wanted to give and to learn about giving each day. Well, I have been doing that, and already it is making me happy. Each day, I give in some way, and I learn a little something in the process, and then I jot that down. My true desire for this year is to learn and practice the beautiful art of giving.
Why did I choose giving? I chose giving because I honestly believe that this is one philosophy that I personally need to live by–a life of generosity, a life guided by giving. I believe I have always had it in me to do naturally, but I wanted to take this year to really learn about it. I believe if I do this consciously, then I will likely learn things that will change my perspective on giving and maybe even change my life along the way. You see, two of my heroes are Jesus Christ and Mother Teresa. These are two people who gave of their whole lives in such a selfless way, that they changed the world.
I probably won’t change the world in this study, but I wouldn’t mind making my world a little better place. Already, my studies are teaching me more than I expected, and so I wanted to write this blog to let you know that I will be writing short notes on this subject on my Facebook page, if you are interested in reading them. I would love for you to read and voice your opinions on these things and help me to learn even more.
Giving – that’s on my agenda as well. Give without expecting anything in return. You actually benefit more yourself that way.
Yeah you do. When you expect something in return, you aren’t really giving from your heart. Not only that, but if you don’t get what you expected, it can make you frustrated and even mad. And then you lose all the joy of giving.
Wow, I’d never considering incorporating a theme into the year, but it makes perfect sense. I guess mine is “Being Present” or “Living in the Moment.”
That’s a good one too. One thing I’m noticing as I do my “100 things” is that it is forcing me to be present. To live in the moment. I hadn’t thought that would be a by-product, but it certainly is.
Yes more of us need to learn how to give, I am happier when I am giving I love to give but all who know me are aware of that……..
I am happier when I am giving too! I love it!
That is a great theme. I will check your Facebook often to see what you are up to. I am trying to do one craft a day this year, starting today. I may be making things when i get the time and will post them on the blog.
Other motto is to serve those come in my way. I consider my day job as a way to serving people. So each one I helped is counted as one person served/ helped. i found that it is a good way to love my day job. What you think?
Bindu, I think that is a perfect way of loving your day job and I need to start focusing more on that.
One new thing a day is a lot!
I will have to keep coming by your blog to see what new thing you made.
I do your mantra this year. I know that has been in your heart for a very long time and now you’re putting it into action. I can’t wait the hear more as you exercise (get it) your giving ways. You are the best.
Cool – I look forward to seeing your results! As Gandhi said, “If you want to change the world, start with yourself.”
Giving: The #1 Depression Cure.
It should be a pretty happy year for you, Bethany.
Levi, thanks–you made me smile here, and I believe you are right. Because every time I give, it makes my heart glow.
Bethany,
The great magic of giving is in how much we receive back. I cannot imagine a single instance where I stopped to pay attention to another person, or gave them something tangible, that I regret. I do recall those weaker moments where I wasn’t quite able to extend myself in that way. Giving, kindness, generosity- always good, for those who receive and those who give, always.
Your spirit and energy continue to jump off the page.
Tom